Okay, so we're gonna go a little old school here (and by old school I mean 5 years ago when we first started this blog) and try a discussion post.
Zyra and I were talking about how our opinions of Han and Leia and how they might act in certain situations has changed over the years. The discussion began regarding our own stories that we have written. How, when going back to reread certain stories or scenes, we may or may not still see Han and/or Leia acting or reacting in the way that we "saw" them and wrote them just a few years ago. We then noted how our opinions have changed regarding some of the things we are reading in the latest EU book: Vector Prime and going into the rest of the New Jedi Order.
Note: I feel like I have to say this and maybe I won't have to as time goes by, but this is not meant to be a bash or defend TFA post. If watching TFA has changed your opinion on some things (it certainly has for me) that's fine, feel free to share that would be applicable. But we don't need to delve further into whether or not we think TFA was true-to-character for Han and Leia or not. This is not what this post is supposed to be about.